604-371-0198 info@drbolgar.com

Individual, Family & Couples Therapy

Dr. Ellie Bolgar & Associates are trained in a variety of approaches:

  • Cognitive Behavior Therapy
  • Dialectical Therapy
  • Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy
  • Rational Emotive Therapy
  • Solution Focused Therapy
  • Existential
  • Psychodynamic

She is also competent in the use of specific therapeutic techniques like:

  • Hypnosis
  • Mindfulness Meditation
  • Neurofeedback

Dr. Bolgar utilizes an attachment focused psychology that is more than simply using techniques. It is an understanding to a way of perceiving life, correcting biases, repairing ruptures, and forming a profound connection to the self and others, which installs a greater sense of security.

Emotion plays a crucial role in organizing how we see the world. Cognitive and behavioral changes are difficult to achieve because they are incompatible with emotional states activated in various life situations. When people learn to interact directly with and shift their emotional states, then behaviors and cognitions change more easily.

Dr. Bolgar believes that people have the natural ability to heal under the right circumstances.


Specialties of therapy services




Work related issues

Family Conflict



Eating Disorder

Narcissistic Personality 


Borderline Personality Disorder

Emotional Disturbance Mood Disorders

Sexual Abuse

Life Coaching





Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder





Life transitioning

Relationship Issues



Women’s Issues



Co-Parenting with Your Ex when Emotions are Still Raw

Most couples that go through a divorce understand that keeping the kids out of all the emotions is the ideal scenario, but that hardly ever works. Children often become the victims in a break-up. We’ve all seen it, whether we’re directly or indirectly involved. But...

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Why Is It Important to Have a Parenting Plan?

If you have children and are divorced, separated, or about to file for divorce, you’ve no doubt discovered that the most important issues to address during the dissolution of a marriage is what will happen with the children. Will you have custody? Will your spouse...

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Do You Recognize the Tactics of Parental Alienation Behavior?

Nearly 50 percent of all marriages in Canada end in divorce. This past year, in addition, marriages have endured much more stress than usual, with the challenges of the pandemic wreaking havoc on relationships, resulting in more separations and divorces than usual,...

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Parental Alienation Has Life-long Implications

Families have been under increased stress during the pandemic. It’s been a long 15 or so months since lockdowns and other traumas began, and some families simply did not survive the anxiety. Existing problems may have been aggravated by the pandemic or new problems...

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When to Seek Help from a Therapist

Sometimes, life is hard. It throws us a curve ball and it can be difficult to get back on track. Whether you’re dealing with marital issues, grief, problems with your children, job challenges, or something else, the time may come when to need to seek help to sort out...

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Children and Divorce: Part 2

It doesn’t matter how old your children might be. Divorce will upset their world like no other happening in their life. Regardless of age – from toddlers to teens – children are affected by divorce or separation in uniquely different ways. Some children become...

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Dr. Ellie Bolgar


306 – 8047 199 Street
Langley, BC  V2Y 0E2


Hours of Operation

Mon to Thur: 8am to 7pm
Fri: 8am to 5pm

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